Life is a way towards directly to death. We always want to see what if I have done or not done something what will I look like now? will I be happier will I live better?But maybe unsatisfied is not a state but a property of human being——u see even if Jerry has been a movie star and lived a life that everybody envies. He still has his pain and eager that can’t be fulfill in his own parallel life.
At first I find Chris hard to understand, and then I realize he has something I don’t have. Actually we have a lot in common. I just think that one can still live his ideal life in a society if he’s mentally free. Civilization is not that evil. At least philosophy and science help us better understand the world and make us live longer and healthier. Our mind can be free even though our body is trapped. I still want the truth, rather than money, fame, fairness and everything. I want to get along with fear and loneliness, since I know I’ll get a lot of them if I want to live a conscious life. In the movie, Chris says don’t try to be strong, feel strong. I understand his tears and agree with his idealism. I just think it’s better to be alive and live physically well to make those ideas realized.
If this is a truth maybe we should start a class to teach people how to feel happy and satisfied. More happiness less pain.
“The core of human spirit comes from new experiences.” “You are wrong if you think the joy of life comes principally from human relationships. God’s placed it all around us. It’s in everything, in anything we can experience. People just need to change the way they look at these things.” I was much relieved when I heard him say this. I think of all my indulgence. It’s like my whole world is centered on my feelings towards a relationship. But that’s not true. All my sufferings are real, but those are only clouds that are passing by and I’ve got a whole sky.
be a better yourself
Beth said that I thought what we have done is for our child but we just never gave her anything. So we’d better cherish each other to prove that the choice without abortion is right.
episode 8。Chris is so loved by many people. They want to help him, do a lot of things for him. They know his master plan and insights on life. Chris is kind and nice. He also believes in helping people in need. He said killing the cow was the biggest mistake he made in life. He gave his last quarter to the man next to him at the phone booth so that that man can finish his call. He donated all his savings to the charity. There’s no reason I don’t love this guy. He is too good to be true.
1. Today is Tuesday, October 24, 2017, it’s sunny outside, but still cold. I haven’t seen the sunshine for several days, so it’s acomparatively a nice day.
Not every child was born with blessing. Better to say, we want to make babies less fear of the realistic world so we make up many romantic stories to tell them. And when they find out the truth of the world they will fell despair and anger
“Happiness is only real when shared.” My tears are salty.
First, let’s look at the contents of Mr. Xiaolai’s column The Journey to Financial Freedom I reviewed today, it’s still about sense of security.
.“we bury ourselves. I want to say that life is just so and we all will die. Come on let’s watch tv
a. Many people said that their heavies burden is the expectations from their parents, because their parents hope they can live in a stable way so they can feel secure. But actually, their real burden is that the sense of security from obeying their parents’ arrangements. And in fact, they enjoy this kind of sense of security and they blame it to their parents and say they have no choice.
.“this world still has hope despite so much despair.”
Mr. Xiaolai said that parents’ disagreements and objection are the best test for you to see that if you really want to live the way you want, have the life you dreamt, if you have the guts or courage to face your own life without any help, make your own decision, and most importantly, be fully responsible to your decision and choice.
That’s one of greatness of human being, I think——people never totally lose hope.
Actually, my father always wanted me to be a teacher in a public school for the past years and he often talked about that being a teacher is the best choice for girls and you can live in a stable life with stable salary, and you can get all kinds of insurance.
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I’m so glad that I didn’t listen to him and got into a public school, even though I didn’t know what do I want at that time, but I did know that what I don’t want, so I keep on being myself. And now, I feel life is full of energy and hope, and I have the possibility to do what I really want to do, and live life in the way I always have in my mind.
If you don’t have the courage to say no to your parents and anyone who wants you to be the person they are satisfied with, that means maybe you just want that kind of life in your deeper mind and you are afraid of fighting for your wanted life, because you let the others decide your life and you should bear it without complaining.
b. Many people worried that they would be ridiculed by others if they say something or do something, for avoiding these, they never take action or take their first step. The best way to solve this problem is that you will never ridicule others and eliminate the idea or concept of “ridiculing” or “mocking” out of your mind thoroughly.
Yes, we are what we think. And the others are the reflection of ourselves (the others just are the mirrors, everything you see on them is from yourself), you see someone has some problems and something you hate, the truth is you are hating yourselves, you have the exactly same problems as the others, you just didn’t notice or find out.
If you never mock the others or say bad words behind people, you will not think people will mock you or curse you behind you. Just like students, many students don’t dare to raise their hands to answer my questions during the class because they’re afraid that the other students would laugh at them if they made a mistake, but actually, they laughed loudly at others if they made mistakes.
So if you are not happy with someone or something, just look deep down inside to find if you have the same problem, and focus on yourself, make you change, to be a better man, then, the world you see is much more beautiful and nicer.
c. If you don’t take action to do the things you want to do as soon as possible, then you will always live in a way that you don’t like and keep thinking about the things you wanna do which is very miserable.